Everyone makes mistakes. Mistakes done by us can be caused by us ourselves or by third parties. In general, human beings are easily led by their self esteem and self defence to blame others around them for the mistakes they have committed.

The only solution to this is to find way for us to accept sole responsibility for our mistakes, learn from the incident, forgive ourselves and get on with lives, without severing any relationship we may already have with other or any third party.

Lets forgive and move on.. actually there are no mistakes, only lessons.